11.21.2012

Thankful

Wow.  6 months since my last post.
Busy.  Busy.  Busy.  Around here.

But, despite the busyness that this life holds for us, I wanted to take a moment just to share what's happening in the life of our family.  Here goes....  in the form of a "I'm thankful list"

I'm thankful......

that Mia enjoyed her 2nd birthday at home in January.  She remains our most serious and determined child.  So much of her personality shaped before she even knew us.  She turned 9.

that Will, our kid who enjoys every second of every day, turned double digits in January.
I'm grateful that his ATV accident this year left him with only a few faint scars.


that our precious, precious Pearl arrived home safe and sound on her 4th birthday in February.  I am so glad that my dad and I got to experience the trip to China together.  So grateful that the surgery to repair her heart and palate were successful.

that Lainie, who still exudes joy from every fiber of her being, turned 6 in February. It was the joy that she brought our family that left us wondering what would happen to the other orphans left behind.

that our beautiful Jillian, turned into a teenager in March.  She is such a good role model for all of her little sisters.

that Trey, had his 16th birthday in April.  I am thankful that he was able to go to Honduras in the summer for his first mission trip.  I believe the course of his life has been set by the things he experienced on this trip.  To say that he is a "good kid" would be the understatement of the century.

that Bobby and I will celebrate our 20th year of marriage in 2013.  Had we known on that sunny June day what the future held for us we would have been terrified.  I am so thankful that we have shared the same hope and dreams for our family.

that I lie awake at night quite often.  My mind filled with visions of children who still wait for families.  Children just like our Mia, Lainie and Pearl.  Hard to fathom they were once forgotten orphans.  Hurts to much to linger on that thought.

that I live a life that is often uncomfortable, yet so fulfilled.

that even though I would certainly love to be a stay at home mom, I do have a job that I love.

that I work with wonderful people who encourage me each day!

that my laundry sometimes consumes me.  It means we have played hard, and had fun another day.

that this year we watched 3 of our neighbors bring home children from China.  We now have a small Asian community at our doorstep :)  Who would have ever dreamed it?  Welcome home Tulah, Drew and Isabella.

that my college roommate leaves for China on Friday to bring home sweet Camille.

that on the days when we wonder where the $$$ will come from for the next medical bill, God shows up in tiny ways to remember he has it all under control.  Many thanks to the anonymous givers who have been such an encouragement to us.

that many of you still read this blog after so long.

that I fall in the bed exhausted every night as a result of a completely blessed life.  Some days are extremely difficult.  Some days are more than I think I can do.  Some days there just isn't enough of me to go around.  Some days I cry.  Some days I feel very inadequate.  Some days I wonder why - with all of the wonderful mothers in the world - did God choose me to be a mom to six.

that people stare at us when we got out.  Being an "abnormal" family sometimes brings us under scrutiny, but I am grateful that we chose to be abnormal.  It has brought us joy unspeakable.



I am thankful for this extraordinary life.  Made possible only by the grace, peace, hope and love that God displays in our lives every single day.

That is all I have time for now.  The list could go on and on.....

Many blessings to you and yours this Thanksgiving!





5.15.2012

A Miracle For Mei Mei

This is Mei Mei. 
She lives in an orphanage in China.
Isn't her smile contagious?  She has lived in an orphanage since she
was 2 years old.  She will turn 9 in August.  She had surgery to repair her
Spina Bifida at age 3.  My friend, Jan Bryant's recently adopted daughter is from this same orphanage.  Mei Mei was Leiney Grace's best friend. 
Leiney Grace Bryant and "Mei Mei"
She has lingered on a waiting child "list" for over a year- waiting - just waiting for someone to say "Yes."   This child, one of approximately 147 million orphans, is so
desperate for a family.  Mei Mei is suffering daily from a lack of medical
attention - she walks on deformed and painful feet. . .she can barely wear
shoes. . .she may need a bilateral amputation.  Can you imagine walking on this every day?

Mei Mei needs a miracle because despite the tremendous medical needs she has, her greatest need is finding a family who will love her forever and teach her about the greatest love of her Heavenly Father.




You can help!

Sadly, many times the money is all that stands in the way of a child finding their forever family. . .
it seems that those who have the money don't have the "calling".  So as we
expectantly wait to see exactly which special family the Lord has ordained
for Mei Mei, we want to offer everyone a chance to help provide a grant for Mei
Mei's adoption. 

You can make a tax deductible donation through Live Again Ministries:

www.live-againministries.org

Just click on donate.  Be sure to put Mei Mei's name in the note section.

You can also find information on the website about how to mail in a donation.



If you blog, or Facebook, please consider re-posting about Mei Mei.  I have seen the adoption community pull together in powerful ways to help orphans find families!

I have great faith that the Lord is indeed going to place Mei Mei in the
loving arms of a family who will provide all that she needs to grow into a
healthy and happy young lady.  However, if for any reason Mei Mei is not
adopted, the money raised through these fundraising efforts will be used to
support another orphan's adoption.  An orphan who resides at one of the
orphanages where our adopted children were cared for in China before God
placed them in our families.

May God grant Mei Mei a miracle and may He be glorified through all of our
efforts!

If you would like to know more about Mei Mei or how you can help, contact Jan Bryant, at
dfbjhb@windstream.net

5.02.2012

Lainie's Letter Home to Chenzhou

Recently Lainie had the opportunity to participate in a 'scrapbook' for her orphanage.  A sweet lady was traveling to Chenzhou and offered to put together a scrapbook of Chenzhou adoptees and deliver it.  We were honored to put together Lainie's page.  We are so thankful the care and love she received in the Chenzhou Orphanage.  I have no doubt she was well loved and deeply cared for.  I could hardly believe my eyes as I sorted through photos for her page.  She has grown so much!  She continues to be an absolute joy.  She has more zest for life than any child I have ever known.  I hope her caregivers can see her joy and radiance when they see this page:


4.23.2012

Tonight I Was There.....


I was not there the moment these two daughters of mine were born.  I was not there the moment they first smiled, or walked, or talked.

But tonight, I was there as they were born into the Kingdom of God.  I held their sweet little hands and listened to them pray and ask Jesus to be their Lord and Savior.  I was there the moment their names were recorded in Heaven.  I was there the moment their sins were forgiven.  I was there the moment they became true daughters of a father that never abandons, never leaves, never disappoints. 

They have both been asking us questions for quite a while.  They've been asking their Sunday School teachers about how to become Christians as well.  Tonight, we read a sweet little book, "Would You Like To Know Jesus?" and afterwards, they were both ready. 

It is an emotional night here.  As I think about all the ways that God moved in their little lives to bring them to this moment.  I am overwhelmed.  I am so grateful that I was there for this moment in time.  Thank you God.

4.12.2012

Sailing Through

The cardiologist said Pearl is sailing through.  In fact we may even go home this afternoon.

4.09.2012

Out of Surgery

We are now with Pearl in the ICU. Dr. Peeler was pleased with repairs.  We will be here 6-10 days.  Please continue to pray for her recovery.

surgery updates

We arrived at hospital at 5:30. Pearl went to the OR at 7.   Surgery started at 9.  They started closing at  11:45.