Here we Grow Again

Since Lainie came home in May of 2007 we have been burdened by the plight of orphans around the world. Latest estimates indicate there are 187 million orphans in the world. As of this week - there will be one less.
We have begun the paperwork to adopt another child from China! Just last week we received our new daughter's file. Yang Miao - we will call her Mia - should be with our family by the end of the year. She is six years old. China has new regulations about revealing too much information about her publically - so you'll have to wait for pics and more info. You can however, begin to pray, pray, pray. Mia's story begins with a huge leap of faith for us. We are already amazed by how God has worked in our lives and we take each new step of this journey holding on to The One who calls us to "walk by faith, not by sight."
Never in my wildest dreams would I have imagined myself as the mother of 5 children! Never in my wildest dreams would I have imagined that two of my children would be brought into our family through adoption. Never in my wildest dreams would I have imagined how happy and blessed I would be....

Stay tuned......

Family Vacation Photo

I saw this on another blog. It made me smile. So true, so true.

Things I've Learned About Having A Family of Six

1. Dirty floors don't matter.

2. The bath at the end of the day washes off the day's meals.

3. I hear "Wow, you have your hands full at least 100 times a day." It makes me smile.

4. My husband is the most patient man alive.

5. Groceries that would last other families a month are gone in a week.

6. Lots of "letting go".

7. Cherish the tiny handprints on the wall. They don't last forever.

8. Spray and Wash is my best friend.

9. With 4 kids who needs a gym?

10. The more LOVE you give, the MORE LOVE YOU HAVE TO GIVE.

Things I've Learned About Adoption

1. It is a miracle

2. Patience

3. Your kids will find you.

4. God doesn't call the qualified, He qualifies the called.

5. Love is all that really matters.

I could add many more to each of these lists. I learn new things about love in a big family and how adoption changes lives every single day. Maybe more on another post.

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Ahhhh! Summer!

We are LOVIN summer vacation. We've been to the beach, the pool, the movies... lots and lots of fun. We've stayed up too late and slept too late. And, we've loved every single minute.

I've been catching up on summer reading. I highly recommend Crazy Love by Francis Chan. In a very small nutshell it reminds us that God's love for us is Crazy. We can't fathom it. Can't imagine it. We are called to love in that same way...

"If we allow ourselves to live recklessly for Him then we, too, will see His glory. We will see him do the impossible."

Makes me wanna do something crazy. Hhhmmmmmm

Would somebody tell this girl we are on VACATION? She is all about her work. I hope you and yours take some time to enjoy the simple pleasures of summer.

Walking in Marvelous Light.,...

Lilly and Lainie - NOW- May 2009
On Saturday the Bryant Family was coming through town and they stopped to visit with us for a few hours. If you remember, their family traveled to China at the same time we did to adopt their precious Lilly. Lilly and Lainie knew each other before they knew their own families. They heard each others first cries, witnessed each others first smiles and first steps. They were "family" for each other in their own small way. Today as our praise team at church sang these words, "Rescued from darkness, we are walking in marvelous light. For we are children of the king, sing!" I thought about these two girls. Both once living in darkness, now walking in marvelous light because of the grace of our loving God. We are all rescued from the

darkness of sin, but these girls were literally rescued from a life of darkness and

now walk in the marvelous light.

Lilly and Lainie - THEN - May 2007 - Airport in China on the way HOME!

May 14, 2009 Lainie has been home 2 years!

Changsha, China May 14 2007 Home 2 years... May 14, 2009

As I write this I am still in awe of how our lives have been transformed by this little girl. Yes, it is easy to see the transformation in her face, but I hope that those looking in from the outside can also see the transformation that she has brought to each of our lives. Many have said that we "rescued" her. Actually, it was our journey to her that rescued us. Rescued us from a life of mediocrity and complacency. Before Lainie we had grown much too comfortable in our lives. God's call in our lives to adoption took us to a place where we were totally out of our comfort zone and as a result built in us a stronger faith and a desire to know Him more.

Does she understand all this day means? Of course not, but she does already know that she was born in China and that Mommy and Daddy came to get her there. She loves to hear the bedtime story of how Mom and Dad came to get her on the big airplane. It will be years before she fully understands the beginning of her life story, but we have begun already explaining it to her in ways her three year old mind can process.

We recently had a family discussion about the color of everyone's eyes. Bobby and Will have blue eyes, Lainie has brown eyes and the rest of us have green eyes. She kept saying, "I have green eyes like you Mommy." And I kept having to tell her, "No, your eyes are brown." She kept saying, " I want green eyes like Jillian and Mommy and Trey." I just kept reminding her that God gave her beautiful brown eyes." I took her to the mirror and said, " See, look at those beautiful brown eyes." That was the end of the conversation, but apparently it was not the end of the thought process in her little mind. About a month later, when I picked her up at the sitters whom she calls MawMaw and Pawpaw (although they are not really related to us) she exclaimed, "Look Mom, I got brown eyes from Pawpaw." While it was so sweet of her to make that connection with his brown eyes, it also made me sad when I began to wonder how long she had been looking into the eyes of those around her trying to find someone who had eyes like her. So, while her adjustment as been so, so, easy, I know that there will be tough questions and tough answers down the road. It is my prayer I will have the wisdom to answer them in a way that points her to the love of her Heavenly Father and his good and perfect plan for her life.

What's going on with us??

We love that summer is now here. The kids have had a great time being able to play outside! Here they are at my mom's house on Easter Sunday. We can't be there without playing at least a few innings of wiffle ball in her backyard.

And, as if we weren't busy enough, our lab, Rosie, added 11 puppies to our family 2 weeks ago. You know you want one!!

Trey turned 13 in April. He had his friends over to our house for a small party. They are such a great bunch of kids. Most of them have known each other since preschool. We are proud of them all. Trey is second from right.

We had a beautiful Easter Sunday. I managed to get all four kids looking at the camera in one picture out of about 30.... they were so patient.

Lainie LOVED the egg hunt!

Thanks for checking in on us. I haven't blogged for quite awhile - my computer and my camera had a disagreement and weren't speaking to each other for quite a while. I think we have things patched up now.

The Voice of Adventure

David, Abigail, Julie and Honor

We are thrilled that Bobby's sister, Julie, and husband David, have announced their plans to adopt from Russia.   We've been praying for them for a quite awhile and we are thrilled to see them follow The Voice of Adventure.....  Check out their blog, but be careful, you might just hear The Voice too!!!

www.voiceofadventure.blogspot.com

I just need ONE day...

If the world could just stop spinning for one day I think I could catch up. Catch up on laundry, e-mail, grading papers, packing lunches, lesson plans, cleaning house, science projects, filing, printing pics, reading for my Bible study...... the list goes on. I just can't seem to stay caught up because every minute that passes by brings more things to do. But, in the moments that I feel overwhelmed, I am also aware of how grateful I am to be such a busy mom. Grateful that I have happy children who are healthy and can play sports - which creates Mt. Washmore in my laundry room. Grateful that I have a job that I love even when I have to stay up late grading papers. Grateful that I have food in my frig to pack all of those lunches for all of those field trips. Grateful that I have good friends who totally understand me when I have "those days" when all of the "to dos" get the best of me. Grateful that my husband isn't above cleaning toilets and doing laundry to help our family out.

I'm thinking time isn't going to stand still anytime soon just for me, so I'll keep taking it minute by minute. Doing what needs to be done in the moment - and doing it with a grateful heart (most days :) )

Here are a few things that have been keeping me busy lately.....

My three big kids finished up their basketball season. So now we go from the gym to the ballfield. Here's Jillian with her team. These girls were by far the most improved team in the league. They are all such good friends and we had a great time spending time with them all.It is the year of milestone birthdays at our house. Jillian turned 10 and Trey will be 13 in April. WOW is all I can say......

I've been promising Jillian a sleepover birthday party when she turned 10. So, this year she invited 12 of her closest friends (yes, that would be a 13 girl sleepover) to her slumber party. They had a blast in the basement. Note the unfinished walls. I need the world to stop spinning for at least two days so that I can get to that project.

We also had another snow day that brought about 5 inches of snow our way. The kids had a great time getting together at Mamaw's house with all of their cousins to play in the snow. Bobby's family always seems to gather at his mom's house when there is inclement weather. It most likely has something to do with the fact that his mom is a wonderful cook. Here we are enjoying chicken stew at her house during the snowy weather.Nothing like family and good food to warm you up on a cold, snowy day. I'm so grateful. Now I'm off to tackle a few things on that to do list....